An excerpt from my upcoming book

In a few short hours, it became apparent that Mom was far worse than I had thought.  When she had mentioned on the phone she couldn’t pack her suitcase I assumed, it was not that she couldn’t but that she didn’t want to.  I quickly realized she didn’t have the stamina, or the power to decide what to pack.  Our past phone conversations raced through my mind, and I concluded she must have been lying to me about her lifestyle. I attributed her condition to depression about my father’s death and her forced retirement after losing her re-election as city court judge.    Instead of haunting familiar places and reminiscing, I spent four days visiting Mom’s doctors, getting her car in working order, throwing out rancid food and packing.  Mom sat on her bed and weakly told me which clothing she might want to pack.  Most of her clothes were not clean, so I stuffed them in a suitcase knowing I would need to do laundry once we returned to my house.    Just going through her medication was over-whelming.  There were many duplicate prescriptions, some unopened bottles; others were empty with no replacement for them.   I was frustrated trying to decide what prescriptions Mom actually needed to take and why.

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